Tuesday, April 28, 2009

The other half

Everyone has "the other half" in their life. The other half means we are sharing our thoughts, interest, food, etc etc.... but not my inner wear. He is wayyyy too big to fit. Lolz...
I found my the other half on end of the year of 2004. Then he had our LDR (Long Distance Relationship) while i am in KL and he's in Perth. We meet up when he got sem-break he come back M'sia or sometimes i went Perth to meet up with him plus enjoy my holidays. On and off both of us travel. Bla bla bllaaaaa..............

And now he is back here in 2007 breathing the same air, watching the same moon and stars, having the same weather, listening the same fm radio and eating the same food. Yes, everyone is asking me how i can manage my LDR till now. Sighs.. Its not easy! We argue most of the time, coz he is farrrrrrrrr away from me. I complain i wanna see him everyday feel him everyday. Too bad i cant feel it. But luckily we have webcam. Almost EVERY.SINGLE.DAY.SECOND.MINUTE.HOUR. we on our webcam. Thou he is away for classes. :D We can both eat at the same time in front of the web. As if we both having dinner or lunch together. hahahah.. Yea, it sounds crazeee.... but thats our way to paktor lo. hahahahaha......

Sometimes i miss those moment coz its the most sweet and lovely dovey moment but at the same time i dont wish to have those again... its torturing! But thank god, he is back here with me. Having him around makes my life full of colors and butterflies. But when argue, sighs... full of grey clouds and storm. -__-|||

I read Hayley's recent post, is about the other half. After reading it, i feel....so much release. Recently, had an arguement with the bear.... and he said he is tired of our daily argue routine. He wants all these to stop. Sometimes small lil topic can make us pist off among each other. So, we cant discuss things about us but talks about other ppl, yea.. once a while he can share his thoughts. He has the 'china man' thinking and he have business minded (just like his dad). Which is good but then my position drop down from first piority to second. That's why the bear thinks relationship will not have any arguement. They think everything is perfect and right. Sighs...
We actually still in "so called" LDR. He is in Taiping & im here in KL. I love KL's life, to me jam is "happening". Muahahahahahhaa..... I think everyone who get stuck in the jam will kill me especially Cryst. :P Read her blog, she always got stuck in the jam. :D

I've read all the comments from Hayley's post. I found out that not me alone facing problem with the other half. Some of them facing the same thing as well. Is that mean the longer relationship we have the more problem we face/argue?? Argue doesnt mean not love thou. Arguement to to tell out what we want what we dont want..... so that they can understand us and we know what you want too.. But the man thinks we like to find problem with them. We like to think all those nonsense and negative things about them. Haihhzz... Sometimes we argue coz the other cant meet the other ones need. Get what i mean.... I want you to be more bla bla bla.... and you want me bla bla bllaaaa..... so end up "bing bang BOOM"!!! Silent is golden at that moment. Hahaha....

Lets pray everyone's the other half understand us more and live happily ever after.. Hope he is reading this.... but as i know he seldom read my blog... but once a while he did STALK my blog. hahahaha.... At the moment he is having his cold war on me. Sighs... @#$%%&^@ This is what i wanna tell him.......


Dear my big bear,

We had gone thru many ups and downs for years. erm.......... i think better dont tell here. Later everyone falls asleep. Lolz... Anyway........I love you lots and i miss ur big belly!!! :P :P :P

Love,
-tHe oNe aNd oNly wAn-



Xoxo gals! Gambateh!! We can do it!! Girls Power! :D

-nAwIhS-

4 comments:

  1. sigh, i feel 'paiseh' cos my post triggered u to feel emo too..
    but we cant run away from the fact la rite?
    but sometimes we still need to be contented cos at least u had gone through the LDR..
    hopefully love 'lucks' will be on our side all the times! ;)

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  2. This is the best and most truthful post I've read about "relationship". Somehow rather I wished that arguements could strenghten the relationship and to know each other more, sometimes I really wished "you don't fulfill my needs, you never understand me, you're not who I want, I don't deserve such person like you..." don't happen as it kills the heart. Due to that, everything has changed, family & friends, routine and life too. I hereby wishing you all the best of luck in life and your relationship, I'm sure the bear could read this post and he loves you very much eventhough you 'thought' that you've become #2 in his priority, in fact, a successful man needs a woman to support him in order to live happily ever after together kakak! :)

    Warm regards,
    -[aLbY]-

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  3. aiya, new blog also got this post is it..i commented in old blog already.. LOL

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  4. Cryst: i saw ur comment at the old blog. :D My new blog abit kosong. Not use to it yet.

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