Some experience i gone thru. Making lots of stupid mistakes and repeat the same thing again and again. Thinking on something negative and after the incident, i think its ridiculous to think that way. Why? What happen to me? Am i having this Autistic sickness?? Oh gosh! I hope im not. But sometimes i have those symptom. What should i do?
Yes, i work as a Graphic designer. I am not creative in my work but i am creative in thinking and fantasy over things which is not happen YET. This cause me to have many problems to face. Once the problem trigger, the only thing i can react is thinking all the negative stuff and let go my anger to the opposite person. I will even tell out my ridiculous thinking to the opposite person. That makes the person get sick of me every time when such things trigger. Oh god!! What happen to me? I have no idea why!
Problems that occur will lead to the failure in life or failure being myself. I need to change it but its hard. Will try more harder to achieve the changes. Why is this bad habits hard to 'throw' it away? When i got the chance to change myself to be a better, i tend lose it again. 2nd, 3rd, 4th, times and so on, those chances i got i did not take it seriously and cherish the moment i have. Till the last chance i even destroyed it AGaiN! Yes, i know many of you will say im too much, its my fault! Yea, I know! I wish i got this chance again to really really REALLY change and push myself to be better (i mean it). Its for my own good and all these changes will lead me to have more happiness instead of depression. Oh come on girl!! Wake up!! (slap slap myself)
I dont know, this time i am seriously thinking to have this PRECIOUS chance to totally make over myself. (as in make over my mind). I will make this happen. But as we know, many chances had given before and we let go those chances again and again. People will think another chance will be the same. Sighs.. I regret that did not appreciate it. Its the same concept as Telling Lies. People will not trust you anymore. What do you think?!
Have you ever done any mistake in your life? Do you feel regret after doing it? What will you do? What if chances had been given for many times to change, but you still did the same thing again and again? Please drop me a comment or if its too private to post it, just email me at nawihs@gmail.com. Share your experience with me.
Friday, May 22, 2009
Wednesday, May 13, 2009
Something to share - How to Handle Jealousy!
How to Handle Jealousy
from wikiHow - The How to Manual That You Can Edit Many people feel jealous from time to time. Jealousy is easy to deal with, once you understand what it's teaching you. Here are some pointers on working through your emotions and feelings of jealousy.
Steps
- Understand the emotions. Jealousy is a combination of fear and anger: fear of losing something and anger that someone is "moving in on" something that you feel belongs only to you.
- Allow yourself to actually 'feel' emotions in a healthy way. When you start feeling jealous, ask yourself: Is it more fear-based or more anger-based? Recognize which part of your body is being affected. If you feel a dropping or clutching sensation in your stomach, it’s probably fear. If you feel a burning, tight sensation in your shoulders and jaw, then you’re likely feeling anger. You might also feel a combination of those sensations.
- Communicate your feelings. Sharing your true feelings with someone without blaming them can create a deep sense of connection between the two of you and open up a dialogue about the path of your relationship. Use "I" instead of "you." Instead of saying, "You shouldn't have done that," say, "I felt terrible when that happened."
- Identify what your jealousy is teaching you. Jealousy can alert you to what you want and what is important to you. If you’re jealous of someone talking to a friend of yours, personal relationships may be important to you. If you’re jealous about money, you may have an underlying need for security or freedom. Ask yourself, "Why am I jealous over this? What is making me jealous? What am I trying to keep? Why do I feel threatened?" When you begin to understand what makes you jealous, you can begin to take positive steps to maintain those things, without the cloud of negative emotion that accompanies jealousy.
- Change any false beliefs that might cause jealousy. There are often false beliefs that underlie jealousy and fuel emotion. If you examine the belief, you can often eliminate the jealousy. Some common underlying beliefs are “Everyone is out to get my money” or “If this person leaves me, I won't have any friends.” Beliefs are changeable. If you change your belief, you change the way you feel. Choose to tell yourself a belief that is nurturing and supportive, and you’ll feel better. When you begin taking steps to creating a happy and fulfilling life for yourself, you will find the anger, the jealousy, and the fear will disappear. Don't listen to people who make you jealous.
Tips
- Jealousy is not the same thing as love. Sometimes, people think that by feeling jealous about someone, they are loving them. Jealousy is not love; it’s the fear and anger of losing love. Jealousy disappears when you are truly loving yourself and others for whatever experience you’re having.
- Learn to be happy with yourself and what you have. Everyone is different, and each person has good and bad qualities. Realize that you have the potential to create a better future.
- Try to talk about your problems with someone. Perhaps you feel that these jealous tendencies are a private matter; then, you ought to anonymously ask an advice column or similar construct about your problem.
- Irrational jealousy usually stems from your own insecurities and low self-esteem. Address these issues first.
- Be happy for the other person. When you are jealous, you may think, "I like that; it would be nice to have that thing or experience." When you can be happy for another person's success and happiness, you allow positive feelings to flow into your life. Instead of being angry, congratulate the other person.
Warnings
- If jealousy in your relationship is leading to control or power struggles, it's a sign that there is an underlying issue that needs to be addressed.
Related wikiHows
- How to Identify if You Are in an Abusive Relationship
- How to Have a Healthy Relationship
- How to Tame a Free Spirit
- How to Not Be an Obsessive Girlfriend
- How to Maintain Romance
- How to Make a Long Distance Relationship Work
- How to Get Over a Break Up
- How to Earn Friendships Back
Sources and Citations
- Advice and Examples on How to Cope With Jealousy Practical advice on how to deal with romantic jealousy.
Article provided by wikiHow, a wiki how-to manual. Please edit this article and find author credits at the original wikiHow article on How to Handle Jealousy. All content on wikiHow can be shared under a Creative Commons license.
Wednesday, May 6, 2009
Mother's Day
Mother's Day is around the corner. Wonder what to get for your mummy?
This can help you! Its cheap and worth and its HEALTHY! Instead of getting something not useful and waste of money. :D
Introduce you the Bird Nest!
Consuming bird nest is good for everyone especially woman. It helps woman look younger and skin look smoother, cell growth, elderly people, the lungs and pancreas.
Bird's nests is also good for those who have just recovered from illness,old people and weak, who suffer from asthma and who are always catching the cold or influenza. Consuming bird's nest can help alleviate the trachea, smooth breathing, benefit the control of asthma, expel phlegm, recover vital energy and extend longevity. It is particularly effective for people who have sleep disorders, bronchitis, coughs or hangovers. Bird's nests also show obvious therapeutic effects to help moisturize and replenish the lung and clear away intestinal heat.
This is the best things to get for your mum even you buy for your mum, you and your family will get to eat those. So, benefit for your mum and yourself. Hahaha... That's what i do all the time. >_<
It only takes 2 hours for the whole process to cook.
Its easy and simple!
Wanna know the price its only RM380 for a box, one box got 5 pieces to 7 pieces. Depends on thickness of the nest and the grams. Hurry up! Leave me a message and i will reply you a.s.a.p!
This can help you! Its cheap and worth and its HEALTHY! Instead of getting something not useful and waste of money. :D
Introduce you the Bird Nest!
Consuming bird nest is good for everyone especially woman. It helps woman look younger and skin look smoother, cell growth, elderly people, the lungs and pancreas.
Bird's nests is also good for those who have just recovered from illness,old people and weak, who suffer from asthma and who are always catching the cold or influenza. Consuming bird's nest can help alleviate the trachea, smooth breathing, benefit the control of asthma, expel phlegm, recover vital energy and extend longevity. It is particularly effective for people who have sleep disorders, bronchitis, coughs or hangovers. Bird's nests also show obvious therapeutic effects to help moisturize and replenish the lung and clear away intestinal heat.
This is the best things to get for your mum even you buy for your mum, you and your family will get to eat those. So, benefit for your mum and yourself. Hahaha... That's what i do all the time. >_<
It only takes 2 hours for the whole process to cook.
- 1 piece per person
- 45 minutes to soak the nest
- another 45 minutes to 1 hour to cook
- Reminder: Use warm water for both soak and cook.
- Add rock sugar or ginkgo seed (pak kor)
Its easy and simple!
Wanna know the price its only RM380 for a box, one box got 5 pieces to 7 pieces. Depends on thickness of the nest and the grams. Hurry up! Leave me a message and i will reply you a.s.a.p!
Tuesday, April 28, 2009
The other half
Everyone has "the other half" in their life. The other half means we are sharing our thoughts, interest, food, etc etc.... but not my inner wear. He is wayyyy too big to fit. Lolz...
I found my the other half on end of the year of 2004. Then he had our LDR (Long Distance Relationship) while i am in KL and he's in Perth. We meet up when he got sem-break he come back M'sia or sometimes i went Perth to meet up with him plus enjoy my holidays. On and off both of us travel. Bla bla bllaaaaa..............
And now he is back here in 2007 breathing the same air, watching the same moon and stars, having the same weather, listening the same fm radio and eating the same food. Yes, everyone is asking me how i can manage my LDR till now. Sighs.. Its not easy! We argue most of the time, coz he is farrrrrrrrr away from me. I complain i wanna see him everyday feel him everyday. Too bad i cant feel it. But luckily we have webcam. Almost EVERY.SINGLE.DAY.SECOND.MINUTE.HOUR. we on our webcam. Thou he is away for classes. :D We can both eat at the same time in front of the web. As if we both having dinner or lunch together. hahahah.. Yea, it sounds crazeee.... but thats our way to paktor lo. hahahahaha......
Sometimes i miss those moment coz its the most sweet and lovely dovey moment but at the same time i dont wish to have those again... its torturing! But thank god, he is back here with me. Having him around makes my life full of colors and butterflies. But when argue, sighs... full of grey clouds and storm. -__-|||
I read Hayley's recent post, is about the other half. After reading it, i feel....so much release. Recently, had an arguement with the bear.... and he said he is tired of our daily argue routine. He wants all these to stop. Sometimes small lil topic can make us pist off among each other. So, we cant discuss things about us but talks about other ppl, yea.. once a while he can share his thoughts. He has the 'china man' thinking and he have business minded (just like his dad). Which is good but then my position drop down from first piority to second. That's why the bear thinks relationship will not have any arguement. They think everything is perfect and right. Sighs...
We actually still in "so called" LDR. He is in Taiping & im here in KL. I love KL's life, to me jam is "happening". Muahahahahahhaa..... I think everyone who get stuck in the jam will kill me especially Cryst. :P Read her blog, she always got stuck in the jam. :D
I've read all the comments from Hayley's post. I found out that not me alone facing problem with the other half. Some of them facing the same thing as well. Is that mean the longer relationship we have the more problem we face/argue?? Argue doesnt mean not love thou. Arguement to to tell out what we want what we dont want..... so that they can understand us and we know what you want too.. But the man thinks we like to find problem with them. We like to think all those nonsense and negative things about them. Haihhzz... Sometimes we argue coz the other cant meet the other ones need. Get what i mean.... I want you to be more bla bla bla.... and you want me bla bla bllaaaa..... so end up "bing bang BOOM"!!! Silent is golden at that moment. Hahaha....
Lets pray everyone's the other half understand us more and live happily ever after.. Hope he is reading this.... but as i know he seldom read my blog... but once a while he did STALK my blog. hahahaha.... At the moment he is having his cold war on me. Sighs... @#$%%&^@ This is what i wanna tell him.......
Dear my big bear,
We had gone thru many ups and downs for years. erm.......... i think better dont tell here. Later everyone falls asleep. Lolz... Anyway........I love you lots and i miss ur big belly!!! :P :P :P
Love,
-tHe oNe aNd oNly wAn-
Xoxo gals! Gambateh!! We can do it!! Girls Power! :D
-nAwIhS-
I found my the other half on end of the year of 2004. Then he had our LDR (Long Distance Relationship) while i am in KL and he's in Perth. We meet up when he got sem-break he come back M'sia or sometimes i went Perth to meet up with him plus enjoy my holidays. On and off both of us travel. Bla bla bllaaaaa..............
And now he is back here in 2007 breathing the same air, watching the same moon and stars, having the same weather, listening the same fm radio and eating the same food. Yes, everyone is asking me how i can manage my LDR till now. Sighs.. Its not easy! We argue most of the time, coz he is farrrrrrrrr away from me. I complain i wanna see him everyday feel him everyday. Too bad i cant feel it. But luckily we have webcam. Almost EVERY.SINGLE.DAY.SECOND.MINUTE.HOUR. we on our webcam. Thou he is away for classes. :D We can both eat at the same time in front of the web. As if we both having dinner or lunch together. hahahah.. Yea, it sounds crazeee.... but thats our way to paktor lo. hahahahaha......
Sometimes i miss those moment coz its the most sweet and lovely dovey moment but at the same time i dont wish to have those again... its torturing! But thank god, he is back here with me. Having him around makes my life full of colors and butterflies. But when argue, sighs... full of grey clouds and storm. -__-|||
I read Hayley's recent post, is about the other half. After reading it, i feel....so much release. Recently, had an arguement with the bear.... and he said he is tired of our daily argue routine. He wants all these to stop. Sometimes small lil topic can make us pist off among each other. So, we cant discuss things about us but talks about other ppl, yea.. once a while he can share his thoughts. He has the 'china man' thinking and he have business minded (just like his dad). Which is good but then my position drop down from first piority to second. That's why the bear thinks relationship will not have any arguement. They think everything is perfect and right. Sighs...
We actually still in "so called" LDR. He is in Taiping & im here in KL. I love KL's life, to me jam is "happening". Muahahahahahhaa..... I think everyone who get stuck in the jam will kill me especially Cryst. :P Read her blog, she always got stuck in the jam. :D
I've read all the comments from Hayley's post. I found out that not me alone facing problem with the other half. Some of them facing the same thing as well. Is that mean the longer relationship we have the more problem we face/argue?? Argue doesnt mean not love thou. Arguement to to tell out what we want what we dont want..... so that they can understand us and we know what you want too.. But the man thinks we like to find problem with them. We like to think all those nonsense and negative things about them. Haihhzz... Sometimes we argue coz the other cant meet the other ones need. Get what i mean.... I want you to be more bla bla bla.... and you want me bla bla bllaaaa..... so end up "bing bang BOOM"!!! Silent is golden at that moment. Hahaha....
Lets pray everyone's the other half understand us more and live happily ever after.. Hope he is reading this.... but as i know he seldom read my blog... but once a while he did STALK my blog. hahahaha.... At the moment he is having his cold war on me. Sighs... @#$%%&^@ This is what i wanna tell him.......
Dear my big bear,
We had gone thru many ups and downs for years. erm.......... i think better dont tell here. Later everyone falls asleep. Lolz... Anyway........I love you lots and i miss ur big belly!!! :P :P :P
Love,-tHe oNe aNd oNly wAn-
Xoxo gals! Gambateh!! We can do it!! Girls Power! :D
-nAwIhS-
Friday, April 24, 2009
Life
Its been awhile i did not blog. At the moment i think i will still blog here, while im trying to work out on the other site. My lappy did not install well, i cant go do anything with my new site. So yea..... Been busy working and O.T-ing till late night. Very tired after working and i even skip my gym for almost a week. wtmf~~ I got kinda pist off when i have to stay back in the office till late night, because its wasting my personal time such as going to the gym, daily shopping, and meeting up with friends. Argh!!! Last weekend i work both days, Saturday and Sunday. Boring boring boring!!! Today i work late but then not as late as yesterday. Went dinner with friend after work around 8pm. Had my lovely dinner. Its been awhile i skip my dinner. Im too tired to eat, i just want rest n sleep and PEACE.
Im sick of my daily life, sick of everything around me. I just want to fly away from all these frustration and boring life. Ok. This gonna be very emotional blog. So be prepare, if you are bored better dont continue reading. Its all about life. The stage and level to pass thru all the hard time. Sighs...
Life is like turning around.... i mean its complicated, its like you have something which you wish to have it long time ago, but when you got it... it seems like you are bored with it but you are used to it for many years around you. On the other side, you found something which is more interesting and wish to have it. But you only have the chance to choose only one. That is very complicated. The current things is so comfortable with it, but sometimes it doesnt perform well and it gets kinda boring. The other one is interesting and it makes you happy but something is new you did not use to it. Afraid to have it. Maybe its not suitable. Oh gosh! That is so complicated. Life.... its just like that. (i've been using lots of you, because i want you to put yourself into the situation and imagine it)
These complicated format can apply to object, and non-object, maybe something life and maybe something not life. wtf!? Go try it! Tell me what do you think and let me know. I am confuse and life is making me so complicated. Hahaha...
Something when you dont have it, every time when you see it... you will feel happy and excited. But if you got it and get to see it every single day, you will get sick of it. When you cant get to see it for very long time, then you miss it... tsk tsk tsk~ Complicated!!! What am i talking??!
See! Working life can make me go crazee! Thinking a lot of stuff. Life. Future. Time. Relationship. Friendship. Love. Money. Family. WATEVER!! I need a break of all the boredom.
Forget it! This month not much pictures plus i dont have time to get my happening life. Oh ya! I cut my hair. VERY.SUPER.SHORTIE!! Everyone go shock when they saw my hair. Sighss.. I know its uglyree but then that lengchai hairstylist wanna try something new on my hair. But at the same time i kinda like my hair thou. :D
This weekend not much plans. The bear not confirm he is coming or not. So, just wait and see. He love last minute saying YES and NO. That's what im sick of it. GUYS!! MAN!! DAMN!! Ok la.. not all of them la! :D
Super dupper shortie!
Back at home on the other weekend. Saturday went out with mum and then we kidnapped my lil cousin to our house. Before going home, we bring her to the bakery to get sausage bun. She loves sausage but not the bun. End up she feed me and my mum the bread and she ate the whole sausage. She's like baby dinosaur. She can eat a lot. A whole bowl of wan tan mee she can finish all by herself and she's only 5 y.o.
So, once she reach my house.. first thing she will ask from me is 'rotan' to hit my Mico (pitty my mico) and the second thing is my childhood toy, Lego. And she will ask "Wan jie jie, come play with me". My god!! Asking me play Lego when i was 5 y.o. its ok la.. but now...erm.... i have no idea what i am doing with those Legos. And up i entertain her with the Astro Cartoon Network. Then she so into the cartoons then i run away to the kitchen help my mum to prepare dinner. And of course my mum got to cook something for her which is 2 sausages AGAIN! Yea... kids dont like eat proper food.
Big Tazzy & Baby Tazzy accompany her. She say Big Tazzy scares her, she loves Baby Tazzy. After that we went over to my Father's side Grandma house. This cousin is my mum's side. Once she reach my grandma house, she's not shy and grab my other cousin's bike and cycle. She damn samseng!! And She's trying to show her Peace sign to my ah ma. Lolz..
Fuh! Tiring to babysit her. She too hyper active. Loves food so much. Can die~! hahahah.....
I miss home now! I miss my baby too.
Her 'lansi' face. She's like.... wtf!? :P
Im tired! Got to sleep now. Will update soon (finger cross). Night. and i Miss You!
-nAwIhS-
Im sick of my daily life, sick of everything around me. I just want to fly away from all these frustration and boring life. Ok. This gonna be very emotional blog. So be prepare, if you are bored better dont continue reading. Its all about life. The stage and level to pass thru all the hard time. Sighs...
Life is like turning around.... i mean its complicated, its like you have something which you wish to have it long time ago, but when you got it... it seems like you are bored with it but you are used to it for many years around you. On the other side, you found something which is more interesting and wish to have it. But you only have the chance to choose only one. That is very complicated. The current things is so comfortable with it, but sometimes it doesnt perform well and it gets kinda boring. The other one is interesting and it makes you happy but something is new you did not use to it. Afraid to have it. Maybe its not suitable. Oh gosh! That is so complicated. Life.... its just like that. (i've been using lots of you, because i want you to put yourself into the situation and imagine it)
These complicated format can apply to object, and non-object, maybe something life and maybe something not life. wtf!? Go try it! Tell me what do you think and let me know. I am confuse and life is making me so complicated. Hahaha...
Something when you dont have it, every time when you see it... you will feel happy and excited. But if you got it and get to see it every single day, you will get sick of it. When you cant get to see it for very long time, then you miss it... tsk tsk tsk~ Complicated!!! What am i talking??!
See! Working life can make me go crazee! Thinking a lot of stuff. Life. Future. Time. Relationship. Friendship. Love. Money. Family. WATEVER!! I need a break of all the boredom.
Forget it! This month not much pictures plus i dont have time to get my happening life. Oh ya! I cut my hair. VERY.SUPER.SHORTIE!! Everyone go shock when they saw my hair. Sighss.. I know its uglyree but then that lengchai hairstylist wanna try something new on my hair. But at the same time i kinda like my hair thou. :D
This weekend not much plans. The bear not confirm he is coming or not. So, just wait and see. He love last minute saying YES and NO. That's what im sick of it. GUYS!! MAN!! DAMN!! Ok la.. not all of them la! :D
Super dupper shortie!*****
Back at home on the other weekend. Saturday went out with mum and then we kidnapped my lil cousin to our house. Before going home, we bring her to the bakery to get sausage bun. She loves sausage but not the bun. End up she feed me and my mum the bread and she ate the whole sausage. She's like baby dinosaur. She can eat a lot. A whole bowl of wan tan mee she can finish all by herself and she's only 5 y.o.
So, once she reach my house.. first thing she will ask from me is 'rotan' to hit my Mico (pitty my mico) and the second thing is my childhood toy, Lego. And she will ask "Wan jie jie, come play with me". My god!! Asking me play Lego when i was 5 y.o. its ok la.. but now...erm.... i have no idea what i am doing with those Legos. And up i entertain her with the Astro Cartoon Network. Then she so into the cartoons then i run away to the kitchen help my mum to prepare dinner. And of course my mum got to cook something for her which is 2 sausages AGAIN! Yea... kids dont like eat proper food.
Big Tazzy & Baby Tazzy accompany her. She say Big Tazzy scares her, she loves Baby Tazzy. After that we went over to my Father's side Grandma house. This cousin is my mum's side. Once she reach my grandma house, she's not shy and grab my other cousin's bike and cycle. She damn samseng!! And She's trying to show her Peace sign to my ah ma. Lolz..Fuh! Tiring to babysit her. She too hyper active. Loves food so much. Can die~! hahahah.....
I miss home now! I miss my baby too.
Her 'lansi' face. She's like.... wtf!? :PIm tired! Got to sleep now. Will update soon (finger cross). Night. and i Miss You!
-nAwIhS-
Tuesday, April 14, 2009
New layout
Its been awhile my blog did not update. Im lazy, busy working till late night, gym till tired to think what to blog, bored with the layout and got nothing special to blog about. :D
So, Stay tune for the latest blog page.
Love ya!
-nAwIhS-
So, Stay tune for the latest blog page.
Love ya!
-nAwIhS-
Saturday, April 4, 2009
Awesome Dance
I love this 'Jai Ho' dance! Its awesome!! Lolz.... hahahaha...... i cant stop laughing with the dance! Lame plus cool~ hmm........ anyway i wanted to learn that in my ZUMBA class. I guess i will propose that dance on Monday during my Zumba class! hahaha.....
Awesome rite?! hhahahaa......
Awesome rite?! hhahahaa......
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